Relationship

Love or infatuation?


Love or infatuation

Ranjan, a shy type and royal mood guy worked in a private media firm. His duty was to editing, proof reading and managing the contents before to final print for his company’s daily broadsheet.

Moreover, he himself is a poet and writer so used to write column and got good feedback for every column.

After some days there comes Sruti as his assistant.

Sruti is a different type of girl, derisive, gossiping, and moreover flirting with others her habits.

If someone told her what she is doing is not good then she used to say it’s just a friendship but people noticed it more than friendship.

Days passed, Sruti tried more to flirt with Ranjan too. And finally one day she became too close with Ranjan, even without noticing she is becoming more close to such a guy — who is off course a good looking, earn more than her— but not her type.

Is this really a love or something else?

According to diffen.com, love and infatuation are both intense emotions that one feels for another person.

These feelings are most often confused for each other by many people. But the two feelings differ in their actuality of love, intensity and final outcome.

Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love.

Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of relationship when sexual attraction is central. But, love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person.

It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal love.

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An unknown author describe  love as “A wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to crumple.”

In love, your heart starts drubbing, you’re flush with excitement and giddy with anticipation. You start to jump here and there and your fingers play around with your smartphone all the times and eyes even not tired glaring your smartphone for pings of text for you, hoping it’s from them.

Sometimes you even can’t focus on your work and lost your appetite too.

But, infatuation other hand is an intense feeling for someone. It happens when you are attracted to a person’s appearance or attracted to him/her sexually. Infatuation happens early on and tends to become obsessive.

In infatuation, you see his/her all good things through rose-colored glasses putting him/her on a pedestal and don’t even acknowledge him for who he really is — good or bad.

Lust and infatuation are usually brief and short-lived and don’t tend to turn into true love. When you are in love, you will have intense feelings for him/her, and be attracted and connected on the level of mind, body and soul.